To contribute my 'substance' to the creating of a precious human life, without then taking responsibility for his care and cultivation, would feel--to me--incredibly irresponsible. I would feel derelict in my duties.
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This is my issue in my head - I don’t want another man’s “substance” making a kid inside my wife…
Adoption is also very risky from where I am and I’m not a whale with 2000BTC to do it internationally…
Mind fuck of note 🤦🏻♂️
Why not considering moving to another country and try adoption there? You could help many poor people.
Not an excuse but just how it is.. financially and passport wise I can’t really move anywhere without great financial ability…
I understand. It's a tough decision. You need to think carefully about it and discuss it with your wife. I kinda sense that you wouldnt really be sure about a donation, since you ask here the nostr community.
Anyway the child should not suffer from your decisions or mind changes later on and deserves to grow up in a stable family.
Have you considered about taking care of foster kids with an option for adoption?