Monero is amazingly simple to use. Fees are supper low. No gas or fee bullshit to juggle, its all known ahead when the transaction is constructed. It's hard to zero out several wallets in botcoin. You have to worry a low feel will never get pushed. With XMR that goes away.

The feeling you get from Default privacy is almost inexplicable. Sovereingty. No need to worry about if this or that purchase will one day show up to haunt you. No need to juggle several wallets. we are steeped in invasive relationships, this one private mechanism is such a relief. I don't even buy anything illegal with it, but the feeling is there.

Bitcoin feels clumsy, compared to Monero. Hard to explain. Monero beats lightning. But lightning support for microtransactions is better. Bitcoin always has this feeling of impending doom, did i enter the right address, ? or is it the wrong kind of btc address ? Did i set the right fee ? Should i coin join ?