nostr:npub1c57hfwynxkarccttpyc4k9j42nsec2ccpl4aye8n3ernm5cv7jyqrrawu5 sorry you have to go through this, but I appreciate the fact that you call it out and talk about it. I have the privilege that I don’t have to face this (Or am so terminally dull that there is nothing that stimulates people to reply? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ ) and seeing it visibly impact someone is a reminder to keep evaluating my actions and interactions. So thank you.
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nostr:npub12atqz6n84rs8cx3qrqnaj87qrnln7k5jl65qjd2r8fetkkphhwkq7xglhl sorry I didn’t see this earlier to respond! Thank you for your encouragement in this. It really is like walking a tightrope; balancing when to speak up about it and when to just let it go. I do think ppl need to understand how it comes across as patronizing, and how it gets tiresome when the recipient gets it a lot.
And then there’s dudes (like the one who responded to this post) who attack out of nowhere, don’t allow rebuttal, and leave. They are just miserable.
nostr:npub12atqz6n84rs8cx3qrqnaj87qrnln7k5jl65qjd2r8fetkkphhwkq7xglhl also, YOU ARE NOT DULL. You are a magical unicorn with a beard. 🦄 🧔