nostr:npub12atqz6n84rs8cx3qrqnaj87qrnln7k5jl65qjd2r8fetkkphhwkq7xglhl sorry I didn’t see this earlier to respond! Thank you for your encouragement in this. It really is like walking a tightrope; balancing when to speak up about it and when to just let it go. I do think ppl need to understand how it comes across as patronizing, and how it gets tiresome when the recipient gets it a lot.

And then there’s dudes (like the one who responded to this post) who attack out of nowhere, don’t allow rebuttal, and leave. They are just miserable.