Utilitarian arguments would justify any atrocity in history. Your fear or lack of imagination on how to solve a problem doesn't magically mean you now get to initiate aggression on peaceful people.
It has nothing to do with living alone. The social thread we are chatting on is a VOLUNTARY collective. Nostr isn't claiming I elected them as my representative when I didn't, saying we owe them money, setting rules, and sending armed goons to my home to throw me in a cage or kill me if I resist.