No one wants to admit that you were right about the janny worship that forms around the instances that operate. Mix that in with either substandard Nostr clients or ones ran by pro-censorship faggots, and there's (to most people) not a lot of benefit aside from less upkeep as a relay operator compared to a fediverse instance owner.

If I don't leave Gab or Gleasonator before May, I'll definitely use them less as Nostr (and Memo, God knows THAT needs to be used as well lol) becomes my go-to.