Totally hear you on lighting.
Since my previous message, I found the nostr:npub1kvaln6tm0re4d99q9e4ma788wpvnw0jzkz595cljtfgwhldd75xsj9tkzv iOS app available via TestFlight, and this changed everything for me!
It’s straight forward enough to use, and has been working really well. The NWC side of it is simple, offers multiple NWC connections if you choose, for example, per app. This has been the first time I felt it was simple enough for less-tech users. Am looking forward to its release.
I’m assuming there’s a test Android version available if you’re an Android user, but recommend giving it a try if you want something that seems to work, and integrate, smoothly.