Ma'am, I don't mean to offend, but I believe you over-think everything more than anyone else in the world (with the possible exception of my little sister).
It's endearing, but I read your posts and think "Man, she's right. She must have spent, like, a full minute thinking it through. Who does that???"
Overthinking is the only thinking mode I have, as I think whole-to-parts.
I mean that I see the complete system in my head, all at once, and then I scribble the whole thing down until I see my vision reflected in the text.
And then I post the note.
And then I notice that I forgot this edge or that node, or that I didn't define this point clear enough.
And you can see the scribble-correction posts sort of drip in.
Erase, redraw the line slightly further left...
And I can't stop myself from writing feverishly until the whole picture is complete. 😂
The End.
Your process, right there.
You are a remarkable outlier on the bell curve, on what is now known professionally as "Low Self-Monitoring", but which our ancestors are believed to have termed "sincerity".
Apparently it was valued. :-p
I suppose some men prefer guileless women. You don't have to interpret anything we say or do, as we speak with such transparent naivete.
Like a child.
But we always need lots of protection. I don't know if that's a bug or a feature.
I think my husband likes that about me.
Constantly strategizing, but rarely scheming. Outspoken and outgoing, but physically timid and easily startled.
Such an odd combination.
Perhaps I'm an acquired taste.
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