idk man, there seems to be a looooot of resentment here. perhaps there is some history between you two that i don't know about—it feels like you're assuming a lot of her motives. i haven't read anything that she's posted to be sexist, but i haven't read all of her notes either—She seems very egalitarian to me.
i'm not sure if you're aware or not, but this resentment you harbor is contributing to the very divide you are against...
wishing you peace and healing