nostr:npub12e8zrykjcn0nxgjvzhtc0ngpwt7gcln20t7k00xrlr35gltktxqsuxre7a use one of these nostr clients that support NIP-65/Gossip and you'll have a better experience with small relays, because they can intelligently find the relays that contain the missing pieces from profile info, notes, etc.

Nostrudel: https://nostrudel.ninja

Snort: https://snort.social

Iris: https://iris.to

Coracle: https://coracle.social

They're all Progressive Web Apps, which means you can install them on your phone to behave like a regular app.