Totally agreed. On both, the love and the encoded speech. And this encoded speech is pure evil. It is direct, intentional, effort invested, misguiding of selected people. Nothing is more evil than that. This is way worse than Hitler saying hey jews, you are scum, I am getting rid of you, and even following through.
Some english speakers, including yourself, but I know some others personally too, manage to escape this negative influence, but that takes really exceptional skills, intelligence and life experiences. So it does not disprove the rule.
Since there is not even a normal writing technique for the language, I don't know, it's tough. Probably the populations using the language globally will have to shrink dramatically, until someone at least changes the way of writing it. Then perhaps it can start healing by adding and replacing loads of words.