I agree with your wants, I have the same wishes.
Are they utopic? Probably.
Lobbying government is part of the process humans go through with respect to the state aparatus.
I find it hard to imagine people stopping to do this, even the ones who agree with you on shrinking government intervention.
Re: If someone feels the state aparatus is here to stay, they might fall into the purview of lobbying it to accomplish their bidding.
A tragedy of the commons type scenario if you will.