He gives a lot of marriage advice, but he hasn't been married very long. I've been married so long that my marriage advice is like:
Just don't get divorced.
Which is actually really effective. 🤷🏻♀️
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people these days are encouraged to not be honorable with their contracts. marriage is painted as some kind of non-serious thing.
actually, it's a fiat mindset, because the same thing applies to fiat loans, although they do screw up your credit rating and often will garnish your wages, it doesn't have the stigma of a proper contract, i've heard it from so many people talking about how "oh, they just claim it on insurance anyway", so a lot of people just brush it off, lose a bunch of stuff, or the car gets repoed and a lot of the time that's not an impediment to other, more loose lending companies. because the money isn't actually a real cost to a bank. when people talk about money printing, that's banks issuing loans. the ongoing payment of interest is what they make money on. and similarly, in relationships, everything has more and more gone towards a casual, non-serious attitude about everything, including marriage.
like, even this trans stuff. people are afraid of being committed to something that they already accepted. they are dishonoring their contract with God, in the sense that this was what they were given, and they want to mutilate it because of ridiculous attribution of anxiety and depression to sexuality. when in reality, the mental health problem is caused by diet and drugs.
dishonoring contracts is a sport in fiat culture. the things that apply to money have a way of impacting all kinds of contracts that people sign up for.
Been married just over a year... My advice would be don't jump into an Illuminati spaceship piloted by lizards but I'm aware opinions may vary on this subject.
I suspicious of anyone who claims they know the answers to everything. Especially folks who only broadcast and never interact.
idk
it seems to me that a lot of these guys want to believe that feminism or some other ideological demon is the largest threat to their relationship and family.
but really, the biggest threat is themselves and their ego. they feel entitled to "leadership" without taking responsibility for the failures.
behind all the glamorous words of obligation and values rests the deep truth that they really don't know how to love a woman—and may not even like women in general.
Yeah, they don't like women very much. Everyone thinks this is ideological, but some guys just don't like girls, and vice-versa, and they come up with ideologies to match that, but it's really just some weird, angry offshoot of sexual confusion, where they worship their own biological sex. Bros before hos and women making vagina-shaped ceramic ashtrays, and stuff.
And the rest of us are just in the middle, watching this ping-pong. Will the No Boys Allowed Club or the No Girls Allowed Club win this round?
the ego is not a toxic thing implicitly. it is simply the limited view and models a single person has. it is an anti-individualist perspective that is based on a mindset common among the ruling class that most people are just dirty animals to be herded and population controlled.
feminism is not by itself the threat. it's that, combined with hormone pills, eugenics propaganda against families, and the psychologically damaged people who have these things imposed on them and normalized.
feminism is bullshit though, it's not even an accurate label, because what it really means is "women and men are interchangeable" - which is ridiculous. treating people as symbols is dehumanizing. thinking in cliches and stereotypes leaves out all the individual differences. some women are more manly, some men are more womanly. what fits the physical individual is not a simple binary equation. but having said that, women's brains have different capacities to men, caused by hormones and the differences of the extra genes in the female chromasomes. so, a) they are different, b) they can be somewhat similar along various lines, and c) honor the gift of life by affirming the particular thing you are instead of your mind being locked into simplified caracatures of reality.
"Just don't get divorced" ... or "do the sorts of things that make them *want* to stay with you"? 😂
I recently celebrated 10 years with my wife. It simultaneously seems weird to me that we've been mapped that long, yet also it would be more weird otherwise.
It ends up being the same thing. That's why it's like a magic trick. If you know that there's no eject button, you automatically fly more carefully.