I'm also from the South, but I'm weird... Introvert, would rather go to the dentist than meet new people. I usually have a New Yorker's directness and humor, though I hated NYC when I visited once
Discussion
I'm an introvert too (get energy from sitting alone with my thoughts) but I like to meet new people. It's risky but there's the reward of potentially having a good conversation.
I don't like hanging out in groups in general as I tend to stay silent when there's a group.
Also every person I have met who seems extraverted to me tell me that they are introverts so I can't say I know any introverts except the person I live with.
But that may be the weed causing extroversion.
Is there really such a thing as an extravert.
Probably not. The whole paradigm is probably like hitting a nail sideways. I see people who care a lot about their image/reputation, and people who don't care. The ones who care sacrifice themselves unendingly to be viewed as good/accepted/in/valuable - and it becomes self fulfilling. But its still a fantasy world
Food for thought. Thank you