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#Feminism doesn't make sense, any more. If it ever did. You really can have it all. You can simply have the one, and then the other.

Reentering the workforce, traveling, educating yourself, and pursuing your pet projects in your 30s and 40s often works out really well. And you can do it without having to fret over whether you will ever become a mom and meet your love.

You already answered that question. Decades ago. You answered the most important questions, first. Now, go have some fun.

Longevity is the Game Changer.

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TheDarrenator 3mo ago

The most feminine -- the kind good men are attracted to -- are the ones who marry early and devote themselves to their husbands and make babies and serve as the heart of the home.

Feminisim is no good if it means a woman trying to be more like a man.

My wife quit her career a few years back to be a full-time wife, and it has been the best move ever.

She gardens, sews, goes to a lady's group at church, finds the best deals on groceries, cooks, beautifies the house -- all sorts of things.

She was "missing out" before, when she was in the workforce. She finds fulfillment in being a helpmate, which is a beautiful thing.

unknown 3mo ago

Women and men can choose how they want to live their lives. As long as they aren’t hurting anyone they can live any damn way they want to. Anyone who say otherwise is the one with the problem.

Joe Stauffacher 3mo ago

“Women have given up being priceless for importance.”

hit with a hint of s 3mo ago

Bollocks

Melissa 3mo ago

Rather, men didn’t treat women like they were priceless. Many men have insecure egos and because they lack power they exert power over women simply because they have a penis. If men would’ve viewed women as an asset who increased their power this moment of time would look very different.

Laeserin 🇻🇦 3mo ago

"men"

Melissa 3mo ago

You’re right. They aren’t men. They are emotionally immature boys stuck in the shadow masculine and now we live in a world where women are living in their shadow feminine aka feminism. Cause and effect. Karma is a bitch. 😂 We all need to balance our feminine and masculine energy and educate humanity on power and energy to heal the past wounds.

Joe Stauffacher 3mo ago

Laeserin, in quotes because it’s from this book. “Keys to the Kingdom” https://amzn.to/42oVukE

Joe Stauffacher 3mo ago

It goes both ways… both individuals have to share the desire and willingness to do their own work.

hit with a hint of s 3mo ago

It feminism means equal chances for women- it still does and it always did make sense.

If you disagree- simply wait until menopause and see the understanding of female biology by an average doctor, availability of hormone treatments and a cost of them.

And compare.

Then look at Afghanistan.

You are just privileged and young. Nothing wrong with it. Enjoy.

Laeserin 🇻🇦 3mo ago

I'm one of the oldest people on Nostr, but thanks.

hit with a hint of s 3mo ago

Lol, I love your confidence!!!

Jose Sammut 3mo ago

POV you have grey hair

hit with a hint of s 3mo ago

By the way, prior to 1977 in Germany (random example) a husband was a legal guardian of a wife. Without his permission wife was not able to even open a bank account (reminder, there was no bitcoin in 1977). Good luck with travelling and education.

Woman never had equal rights to a man and in simple words it was one of major fuckups in human history.

Laeserin 🇻🇦 3mo ago

They weren't allowed to open a bank account without his permission because of the strict protections on sole property. Money she puts into such an account is not joint property.

Married women are now allowed to open a bank account or take on employment, without his agreement. In return, they are treated more equally to men in divorce and child custody proceedings.

Laeserin 🇻🇦 3mo ago

Husbands tend to pay for their wives' travel and education, at least in part. We often don't need paid employment, or can afford to be picky about which jobs we take and how many hours we work, due to our husbands paying the household bills, and the fact that married women tend to be relatively wealthy.

hit with a hint of s 3mo ago

Lol, some of them do.

Some other women deeply regret getting married.

Many women would envy your point of view.

The ones that fight - fight for the ones that have reason for such envy.

Laeserin 🇻🇦 3mo ago

Marriage is a bet on another person. Not every ticket is a winner, but the wins are big.

Reducing the downside risk has made the institution less attractive, and now there are fewer tickets on offer and women have to work harder to get one.

Life is never fair.

hit with a hint of s 3mo ago

Said like a true winner. Congratulations!

Laeserin 🇻🇦 3mo ago

Water seeks its own level. I hear.