if you want to go selfcustodial and be fully in control of your funds without the risk of getting rugged by the custodial provider, the current fee environment is actually v favourable for that rn - u should look into phoenix.acinq.co for that, @btcsessions has clear short tutorials for this.. fund your channel liquidity now ($50) and be good for a while for sending zaps + manually redirecting your received zaps to if it crosses a certain treshold you deem to much to risk to lose from a custodial risk issue.
best option for iOS (sending zaps) for someone who's mostly on mobile on nostr #asknostr (posting for u to chime in bc i dont have ios myself)
https://ln.tips in telegram to receive + that wallet connected to Bluewallet app (lighting wallet setup) to send zaps
if you want to be able to zap by means of a one-tap, I'd advice u to setup getalby.com on desktop once (instead of Bluewallet) and connect your akby extension to your ln.tips
i bet there's a ton of other nice setups, but i think these two options are the best for now
they are all custodial solutions btw, so know ur risk.
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Brilliant. Thanks so much for your help