One thing I’ve learned in relationships is that women just want to be heard whereas men just want to give advice.

As a man, try to avoid giving unsolicited advice to your woman when she’s telling you about something.

She likely will feel more loved if you just listen attentively and tell her you hear her.

If she wants your advice, she’ll ask.

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“ do you want me to listen or do you want me to help”

Has worked wonders for me when in relationships

Just asking that can fix so many things / arguments !

Took me a long time to figure it out

Si no le doy consejos, se noja y me dice "decime algo" 😅😂

You can say “I hear you” then follow up with a question to get more information if it’s appropriate.

I personally prefer to be roasted until I come to the advice on my own , requires top-tier humour skills

Sounds like a good time if you get the right guy.

as a woman, sometimes if my man LETS me talk for hours about every detail of my day, I just might.

but THIS is what girlfriends are for.

men who let us vent too long are un-f*ckable, really.

a good solution, regular meeting with the ladies. maybe that's what she really needs but doesn't know she needs.

just saying.

or do you just feel too ashamed to fuck someone who knows too much of how you think and feel

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