One of my best friends was gay (sadly he passed due to heart disease) and another very close friend of mine is in a queerplatonic relationship with her roommate/best friend, who herself has a boyfriend, so I understand and accept that sort of thing. I’m a

a sci-fi enthusiast, and philosophically a trans-humanist. I’ve read enough science fiction where both gender and sex (and even body plan) are malleable through technology or engineered biology to normalize that sort of thing in my mind.

I like to think most egalitarian society is the one where everyone is a shapeshifter, so appearance means nothing and is totally malleable, the only thing that makes you “you” is your mind.