I was in a 10 year relationship, it probably only should’ve lasted five years, but we stayed together primarily because we shared a dog.

In retrospect, I should’ve left that relationship much sooner, but when I started dating her, neither one of us wanted kids.

As an only child, my dog was the first time that I learned to love something more than myself, and now I’m a very proud father.

I completely understand this phenomenon, because I lived it. Time to perspective, and I’m grateful I found my way.

At this point, since my daughter arrived, I have basically given them up, but I’ll never let him go… nostr:note1msdp5hl4md044sdfzsktaz06jwyerq4dsmawgt0x0vp9rmzn5vxquk28h3

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Not wanting kids is like not wanting to be healthy or lose weight. Just because you don't want it doesn't mean you shouldn't do it.

Soon as I had a kid, I see where I went wrong, and wish I did it 10+ years ago.

I would have grown up much sooner.

This has been the most insane stretch of my life, but I treasure every fucking second of it.