I just dont trust the relay thing. I have no advice to help. But that many connections are surely gonna cause a slowdown of most devices. And do you really trust a forced connection to a relay without choice? Who knows who or what is running them. Worse, Vitor doesnt care that anyone may have an issue with it. I told him I would never use the app again as long as its forced. Months ago. Still forced. Sus af. He also added covert censorship recently. If five or more people you follow mute someone then its muted for you. Again, without choice. Find another is my suggestion.