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hey idk but this was at the top of my tl cos i follow you. i didnt know what that acronym means. means it realizes female led relationship. ive never heard of that. that isnt a thing i know about. i can tell you that friends who didnt know me or my boyfriend at the time simply remarked "i wore the pants" only one single time and i never forgot and at the time i just didnt respond cos i dont respond to disrespectful nosey ill informed shit that was meant to tease me and degrade him.

she was jealous that he was a new priority in my life. that's all.
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whit 1mo ago

Love you responded. I meant to tag nostr:nprofile1qqsddtl6r9dmwx22wpvr9af4lfjm4vwcmndd56e9grlnfvmsjygtzacpzpmhxue69uhkummnw3ezuamfdejszrthwden5te0dehhxtnvdakq2df8sh but it was a good failure since now we have more conversation. Also, felt completely on “ wore the pants “ comment as that definitely 💯 hits in former relationships. Hugs. 🫂

Maybe it’s my age but at the point where being picky isn’t seen as a bad thing. Sadly, this once was.

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purrs_for_Her 1mo ago

oh wow.

thanks~! this is right up my alley lol

an FLR is (typically) a D/s dynamic where the Woman leads and the man submits to Her.

***this is not a "role-reversal"***

though, i suppose if the Woman wants it to be, then it can be.

but essentially the Woman leads sensually and intuitively as the man supports through stability and devotion. She's able to shape and direct Her good boy to Her whim.

so, it's possible that it looks like "She wears the pants," but many times it's "he wears the pants, but She tells him what to wear."

unfortunately, there's a lot of fetish content that distracts from the relationship focus and more practical aspects of it.

hope you found that interesting :3