That's also a fair point, didn't consider the possibility of the abused seeking power to continue that cycle.

A bit personal here but what the hey:

I'm a guy, and I had a female babysitter of 14 years old while I was 9. Long story short, we did lots of experimenting, all from her initiative ofcourse as I was totally oblivious to what the hell we were doing haha. I never felt like this was abuse, luckily, and therefore have no power-seeking tendencies 😆