Thanks for helping to clarify.
It sounds like what you are describing, “numerology can…and may…” is radically different than the fact that inputs do affect our thoughts.
Additionally it seems numerology does not account for free will/choice if predetermination exists.
Which is really to say; this comes down to worldview.
Numerology stems from esoteric or mystical / occult worldviews.
This is quite different and in many if not all respects the antithesis of a Biblical worldview.