Men equally carry the burden of the decision. Some neglect it, but that doesn't put any less burden on the man.
Women literally carry the baby, but the rest is shared and should be.
Discussion
Yes, I agree. There’s a discourse on here that goes something like “Have children for a fulfilling life” which seems toxic to me and doesn’t take into consideration the partner.
Women are surrounded by that discourse from the day they graduate. Young men usually aren't.
I'm a bit baffled as to why Nostr should be criticised for this unusual evenhandedness.
I’m not criticizing Nostr.
The Nostr community, then.
IRL I've had female friends vent to me about the gender one-sidedness of elders' pushing of children ever since my teens.
I’m saying there’s another side to the conversation and Nostriches don’t need to blindly follow the one-sidedness. I’m not saying I can change any deep seated societal norms.
This is bad. They need the discourse before high-school. If women married instead of going to highschool, society would heal.
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