Once you begin to really get to know yourself and value authenticity, it’s terribly difficult to engage with those who don’t. I try to remind myself that they are likely operating from a place of disingenuousness as a protective mechanism to avoid pain and/or rejection.

The most “real” people I know have gone through times in their lives where they lost themselves completely and operated from a disconnected place (I include myself in this statement).

Resilience is finding the strength to remember who you are again, in your own time, at your own pace.

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We all just want to be respected & loved.

That must start with loving & respecting yourself .

Seeking love & respect externally without first finding it internally, is a recipe for suffering.

You do not do them any favours by engaging in their games.

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Couldn’t agree more

Beautifully said.

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