Nostrich needs a little help.

What's the story with relays now?

Half of them don't work anymore, and some that I sent sats to last year have either disappeared or thrown me off. Is there an updated guide, or did someone do a review? Is there a website I can check which relays are now behind paywalls, which are just down temporarily etc?

Not sure if my nostrpleb address is even verified... it was my gateway into nostr but I think even that server doesn't like me anymore.

Any help appreciated as I'm feeling a bit disconnected.