I do have a very bad history when it comes to dealing with vulnerability, but I also know that my temper is under much better control then it was say 20 years ago.
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interesting.
i can also relate.
do you think it's an aging/maturity thing, or something more related to experience and self-growth?
On some level, I think it's all BS but at the same time you can pick up on the character traits some people have that are associated with the Meyers-Briggs (I'm INFP and Cheese is INTJ) personality types or these enneagram traits 🫂. It becomes a communication tool.
That whole maturing thing packs a punch. I think that at some point you realize that it's not worth giving people/things/situations your energy and life gets better. I'm glad you had fun with it and that I got to razz you, it all goes to show people can surprise you 😆
Yea, me too. I agree with this. The significant things that I would change is the Basic Fear and Basic Desire. I would change them to:
Basic Fear: Of letting harm come to those they love
Basic Desire: To protect themselves and those they care about