Agreed.
How would you put into words what makes a woman womanly/feminine?
Being atypically masculine does not make you less a man.
You can be manly without being a stereotype.
Discussion
Basically this, but for women.
Because we are gendered beings, the way we live out the virtuous life will differ according to gender and to the particularities of the individual.
Women need to practice the same virtues as men, but it looks different because, for instance, men can't bear children. That's why we can talk about such things as "motherly love." Men and women are both called to love, but mothers are called to love in a unique way (as are fathers).