Yeah, but subjective notions of harms possibly attributed to promiscuity, which are dependent on the societal structure in place, are not the same thing as genetics or evolutionary instincts. You were throwing up information about genetics when justifying your beliefs about women, but now it seems you're pivoting to a socio-cultural justification when it comes to your alleged beliefs about monogamy, and why you're not having sex. You're not being intellectually consistent. It seems like you're just picking the justification that's most convenient in the moment. That tendency leads me to think that this belief you have is more about explaining away your current condition than with any intellectual, or instinctual justification.