I've gone through a similar story, stepped down from management and my life is better than ever because i got to keep the same salary.

The different here is i realized early on that I dont need a car loan, i am just fine with a used car.

I dont need brand name things, actually prefer clothing without logos.

I only use credit for gas and utilities.

I paid $700 for my used car 5 years ago and its running like a wristwatch still.

Stacking sats, staying away from trends, moving to the country were the best decisions of my life.

I am able to provide more for my family as times goes by.

Climbing the corporate ladder and then climbing half way back down has given me the experience and knowledge of a director with the responsibility of a minimum wage worker while retaining expertise and allowing me to complete 8 hours of work in 2 hours a day.

My life involves alot of gardening, mining and zapping people on nostr.

Good job on growing your own food!