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question that came up due to a situation with a friend:

as a dude, let’s say your female partner/wife has a male friend that constantly does things like pick her up from the airport without telling you and fixes things in your house without asking, tries to discipline your kid when you’re not around.

Is this disrespectful to the dude? I say obviously yes, she does not agree ?? I feel like i am taking crazy pills.

Lululuna 1y ago

I’d be honouring the way he feels - disrespected - and if she doesn’t agree I’d ask her why.

Every discussion is a doorway to new information & connection. It’d be interesting to hear what she says like- for example the extra support cld really be helping her when her man is not there & she’s juggling everything.

But if it just doesn’t sit right with him - I’d be wanting to discuss strategising who else can give her a hand etc.

We all have

Roles

Responsibilities

Relationships

And it’s not only fair but reasonable to have boundaries and apply discernment when someone or something is crossing them.

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