I recommend checking out amir taaki's comments on various privacy coins, while he is fond of the monero community he is vocal about the need to improve its privacy
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Amir Taaki is awesome and both of your criticisms of moneros weak spot (spender privacy) is valid for sure. He is the one who partially spurred talk and action of improving it on Moneros github. Wish I could find the thread again
yeah amir is really awesome, and you are too Saberhagen, i appreciate my conversations with you!