So you believe the circumstance made you uncaring?
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I used to be so obsessed with getting girls and getting laid. Then after I finally did get laid (by flying to Nevada and paying for it) I realized how stupid my obsession was. I don't regret what I did, and it was important that I made the trip and spent the thousands of dollars on the women there.
But I'm not freaking out, swiping on every fat woman and single mom, and miserable that none of them were swiping or messaging back, like I used to be during my incel days. I still use the dating apps, I still get almost no swipes back, and it is upsetting sometimes, but it's not the end of the world.
I suspect it runs a little deeper than that psychologically, but it’s a glance man. Very little difference between masturbation and getting laid without intimacy.