Another thing is academics. Most of them assume the rest of us are some sort of idiot.

Many college-educated women can't find a college-educated man, despite men and women having the same average intelligence and high intelligence being dominated by men, and that is because attending college is not proof of an intelligence above the amount required to have 90 IQ.

If college were a direct proxy to intelligence, men and women would always attend at a 50/50 rate and all of the top tiers would be majority male. It is the precise opposite: women dominated academia and them dominating a particular branch of academics is an indication that that branch correlates less-strongly with intelligence. The people who flunked out of the physics or engineering program are probably much smarter than the average female B.A., but those women think denial is a river in Egypt.