vpn? there are several custodial and non custodial options. starting your own private channel is a difficult process. For beginner wallet, primal with vpn to Usa to get that hooked up, then you have mutiny wallet that connects directly to nostr to auto zap. you have getalby that is a custodial wallet that is integrated into everything and used by most people on here, and then you have minibits ecash wallet that can be used as a lightning wallet too.