I don't think young, unmarried people having sex is healthy behavior, tho.

They should be learning to socialize through shared interests, family, and friendships, not sexual intercourse.

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i think you are lying to yourself if you say you weren't hot to trot at 16

this idea that you should wait until you "have a career" is pure fiat brainwashing, and stuffy 20th century protestantism, boomers were so squeamish about this, the generation before, my mother's family had 7 children... my grandmother died trying to give herself an abortion (she was a nurse) and my mother was 7 years old, my mother was the second child

and my father's family, also something like 7 children, my father was the first

yeah, i'm calling "stuffy boomer protestantism" on this one

just go talk to some of your contemporaries at the catholic church who are second or more generation about what their parents family life was about

the catholics were famous for their fecundity and this is definitely something that i think was a sign of a healthy social structure... boys going to work at 16 and once they are doing that they should also be getting married and making babies

People used to die younger and so did their offspring. Time to adapt.

uh, the randy teenage boy in me says gfy stuffy protestant wench

Teenage boys aren't as randy as they used to be.

i know, because the modern diet and environment are neutering them

ngl i like it when you expose the things in your thinking that conflict with the rest of your personality and to me reek of brainwashing and a form that i am very familiar as growing up in the Seventh Day Adventist church in a country full of mostly Anglicans (my mother's family were Anglican)

no, it says, over, and over, and over again in the Bible

Be fruitful and multiply

you don't get that without lots of sex

that was separate to the question of marriage

i always felt that the moment i consummated with a woman once i hit 20 years of age that i was married to her and there should be no reason why we don't stay together and have children

but all the women's minds are filled with this shoulds and should nots and bullshit that were the early groundwork of engineering genocide where the population decimates itself by a demographic collapse

I got pregnant, the first attempt, both times. You need to have sex once per cycle, to get pregnant. Everything else is recreation or bonding.

There is no longer a direct connection between fertility and frequency, across the population, because most sexually active people use contraception and people who want to get pregnant can pinpoint peak fertility to the precise hour.

Science.

The correlation is now almost entirely with marriage, not frequent sexual activity. Married women are more fertile. Well-educated married women are the most fertile

yeah because everyone else is being fed birdfood

No, because women don't want to bear children unless they have a stable marriage and an active, involved father for their children.

Wealthier, well-educated women have more stable marriages. This is dads beating cads.

yeah, because women are trained to be pompous, ambitious bitches these days, and it was already starting to be a big problem when i was a teenager

wealth makes people more prudent, but being chemically and mentally neutered also makes you less fertile

Women sleep around --> Women are not choosy enough!

Women prefer to marry --> Women are too choosy!

and this again shows you how if you want to destroy society, the women are the weak point you attack

No actually well educated women have the highest divorce rates. Everything you're saying is backwards. 30% of paternity tests fail. 80% of divorces are initiated by women. The hookup culture is only rising and now STIs are on the rise with them. Marriage and birth rates are at an all time low. Diamond and wedding cakes sales have dropped.

doesn't change the fact that it is forbidden by the religion you follow, and this is the reason why, it contradicts God's first edict towards humanity

There is nothing irreligious about not having sex. I am Catholic, not Quiverfull.

hey, if you can't tell the difference between what all the chemicals in the food are doing to you and what a healthy woman should feel like then i feel sorry for you

the whole world is suffering this, but you can see why just go look at the labels, this isn't rocket science but they have distracted everyone so much and normalised mass population control so carry on preaching their doctrines

My grandparents subsisted off of beans, bread made of moldy grains and sawdust, and green potatoes.

People also used to live hundreds of years. Time to adapt.

Three score and ten, now.

Made worse by amplified feedback from the algorithms. The red pill and black pill are force fed into the feed because "it grabs attention". Then you have people selling courses to up your game or whatever, video shorts showing the uper echelons of permiscuity, furthering the drop into echo chambers where vindictive or nihilistic behaviors and mentalities are encouraged. Its really gross.

porn also reduces actual sex too