That's when the cats come out and play :-) We can be grateful for what we have while still realizing there are big problems, evil people, and irresistible forces of history that can't be argued with. We try to deal with those problems practically, while acknowledging that in the face of very big problems, none of us has much control. You do your best and fight the good fight.
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This resonates with me and while it may seem hopeless I must do what I can to shine light. I have been at odds almost my entire life. Iโm no stranger to loneliness, pain, and hardship.
You have your wife though. There is a bright light to focus on. Your brilliant for recognizing the light in her and asking her to marry you.