The sex scenery is legal and vast in here, but everything is filmed, and I'm not ok with this. I tried a website at some point but it felt like it was more for lonely people to brag. Tinder used to be somehow nice but everyone felt fake. I had more fun recently in Italy in a lesbian bar. It was a one-time thing but I went all in. Black biker boots, black tight leather pants, black crop top, black eyeliner, and so on. I wanted to let them see every muscle that I worked on all these years and to impose "who's the boss" from the moment I stepped in. Sexually, it wasn't a big deal, but I had a lot of fun slapping a chick while her girlfriend was watching. Also, some hair pulling, choking, etc. I want to go harder on a different occasion, to test a few limits.

Anyway, it wasn't a proper BDSM experience, at least how I imagine it.