A school guidance counselor used the school system to come to my house because a student yelled to her "you're built like a pear" after school. She thought it was my daughter, it was not. 1) she wouldn't do that 2) she has been home since the bus dropped her off 3) this seems like a violation of privacy, using the school system to look up our address.

The woman also asked my wife if we knew of any other Ross's (the girl was wearing a Ross shirt) and asked for their addresses. She then said if you don't tell me the address, I'll just go back to school and look it up on the system.

You dumbass. My camera recorded all of that.

Do I say say meh, and just go about my day? Do I contact the school with the evidence of what she said?

It is a gross violation of privacy and overstepping boundaries.