A school guidance counselor used the school system to come to my house because a student yelled to her "you're built like a pear" after school. She thought it was my daughter, it was not. 1) she wouldn't do that 2) she has been home since the bus dropped her off 3) this seems like a violation of privacy, using the school system to look up our address.

The woman also asked my wife if we knew of any other Ross's (the girl was wearing a Ross shirt) and asked for their addresses. She then said if you don't tell me the address, I'll just go back to school and look it up on the system.

You dumbass. My camera recorded all of that.

Do I say say meh, and just go about my day? Do I contact the school with the evidence of what she said?

It is a gross violation of privacy and overstepping boundaries.

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Contact school. If it happened to you it happened or will happen to someone else.

Contact the school. Deeply inappropriate use of personal records.

Definitely report so that there is a record of it having occurred. Let them decide what to do about it.

You already know the answer.

Minimum escalation BUT escalation.

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I do. It's more along the lines that I don't feel like dealing with bullshit. Can't we just be decent human beings?

We can, they can’t.

They are not part of we.

I mean, imagine the emotional maturity of

1) a woman who works with teenagers or younger

2) gets called fat *BY TEENAGERS*

3) probably does look like a pear

4) decides to investigate and prosecute on a Friday

You cannot expect decency, reason, or honesty about her fruit-like shape.

If you don't deal with a little bullshit today, you and your family and everyone you love has to deal with a lot more bullshit tomorrow. Everyday is a good day to deal with bullshit. The bullshitters don't think twice that's why they move faster but their speed isn't sustainable, they never watch their backs.

A β€œdecent human” squashes the bullshit. Ignoring enables. Be a sheep dog.

I would go all out lawyers and all make an example out of her..

That will cost ya.

Ok ill smack the hoe lmao 🀣πŸ€ͺ nah i would blast her in front of the lunchroom

How the hell you got my address who are you to come to my house (hands wavi g everything) who do you thi k you are 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

I would be like "turn around let me see that big old pear ass of yours"

Contact school. The nature of their response is good to know for the future.

However, use emotional words. Be factual, but be as emotional as possible. Maybe use the words like β€œoppressive invasion of privacy”.

If you are logical & calm, they will ignore you.

Put a gps tracker on that person's car then pay them a visit at home

Fight fire with fire. 😍

Did she look like a pear? She's obviously unstable. These snowflakes are the role models for kids today? I would inform the school. Accessing personal information about children -for dumb shit- is probably illegal.

πŸ’― they could've just called home, or pulled student aside the next day to talk 1 on 1, but I think a call home would've been more than enough.

Was she built like a pear? Lol

Bahahaha.

I was going to ask the same question!

Did she show you a school badge? And you should report that. They cannot just look up your information and show up without even calling you first.

Pull your kids out of the public education system

If the comment was true, I would point out that attacking a child for telling the truth sets the wrong example.

πŸ˜‚ She went on a tirade because it was true.

woooah, I would contact school😲

Agree. We're going to.

I would say report it.

She sounds like the β€œsend in law enforcement” type and maybe she needs a check on her power.

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