if you did more to promote the simple solution that mitigates over 90% of ways for this garbage to end up on relays, you know, paid relays, auth, and especially auth protecting DMs so people have privacy about who their friends are

you would have something to say about this

but you don't

instead you want to deflect having anything to do with this protocol your invented, and don't think you should be any kind of a teacher of the way except you are, and until you do your duty, other people are going to suffer