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It’s takes courage to approach women and accept rejection. There is a lot of fear and anxiety that is normal in getting used to these types of interactions.

Not knowing you, I would recommend doing it sober no matter the results. They will walk away or be weirded out a few dozen times cause you don’t know what to say. Just keep doing it!!!!

You will figure out what works. Look for the girls giving you 1/2 a second of eye contact and then looking away.

All that being said. The dating scene is super lame and annoying to manage currently.

There is no good results from medication. Build yourself up and shoot your shot!

Eventually you reach a point in your attempts that you just don’t care anymore and you say what needs to be said and it actually fucking works.

Keep it up and good luck 🤙🏼

Thorwegian (old account) 2y ago

nostr:npub1df96jqumkhanf4ltz4eq8atzn4ykxj9e005r929sx7hdfc92ymjqtye9ry first off, it's not only women. just interacting with strangers in general.

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Thorwegian (old account) 2y ago

nostr:npub1df96jqumkhanf4ltz4eq8atzn4ykxj9e005r929sx7hdfc92ymjqtye9ry what i'm speaking about is general social anxiety. speaking to a woman just adds to that anxiety.

CensorThis 2y ago

Take drugs.

Prescribed.

Allamex 2y ago

This is piss poor advice.

Allamex 2y ago

Some people struggle with social interactions more than others. You really just have to practice. None of us are born with skills, some people just had a better coach or practiced more than you.

Drugs are not the answer. Xanax is an excellent cure for anxiety, but it will give you the same problems as drinking in excess.

Easiest way to learn a new language is to immerse yourself in it. Get a job knocking on doors.

I’ve done a job like that for 6 years and now I’m not afraid of anyone or anything on the other side of that door. I’ve seen it all. Even though I don’t know what’s coming.

Allamex 2y ago

Also anxiety is your body’s reaction to danger. You highly fear social interactions. By withstanding more social interactions you create a portfolio of experiences that didn’t end horribly and you will lose your fear of them.

Keep working at it. There is no speaker that goes on stage that has no anxiety, they just know how to deal with it now.