No person can MAKE you feel anything. Each person's feelings are 100% their own responsibility & a result of their own internal judgements & evaluations. That isn't to say it's great to go around trying to piss everyone off, but it is critically important to recognize that other people's feelings are not your responsibility. Some of the most messed up & abusive people work really hard to make it seem otherwise, because then when they are hurt or offended, you owe them something.
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It's 1 of the 4 agreements (a highly underrated book for living a fulfilling life) - "Take nothing personally".
The conundrum is that your feelings, thoughts & actions are secondary products of your constructed beliefs. You can't shift any of it by pure will alone, you first have to shift your beliefs. It takes little will, effort or even evidence to adopt a new belief.
My belief that allows me to take nothing personally is that their reaction is more about them than me.
Work on incorporating beliefs that better serve you & uncover those beliefs that are causing undesirable thoughts, actions or feelings.
Simplist sophomoric bullshit - as soon as you actually care about something, it can be used against you, and you have no choice but to feel it.
"I know Dr. Spock and you're no Vulcan" :)