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Without knowing you personally I can't really say. It seems that this submission is more symbolic than anything else. I would worry that you find comfort in submission due to some old wound. Perhaps you are looking for the care you didn't get when you were younger, or something along those lines.

Sub/dom dynamics can be healing for people with trauma.

purrs_for_Her 10mo ago

this could very well be the case. either way it's something etched in my soul—a need and an expression.

i don't disagree with you that D/s dynamics can be very unhealthy, only that examining them requires nuance. and the way they're presented in the trad stuff isn't very healthy at all, imo.

D/s shouldn't be the foundation of a relationship—it's an additional layer to an already healthy, loving relationship.

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