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And equally important for the people who want too much from you to leave.
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Susiebdds 2y ago

Such a great point, but has not proven as easy for me to implement.

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Amanda 2y ago

Just started for me this year. Be a mirror and they don’t like what they see and they leave. Then let them stay gone.

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Susiebdds 2y ago

🙌 I love that Amanda.

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Amanda 2y ago

Heartbreaking at times in the beginning but once free from that energy so grateful and feel like a feather 🪶

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HODL 2y ago

Here’s my heuristic. All adult relationships demand reciprocity. Are we both giving and getting equal amounts out of this arrangement? If not something needs to change. If I stopped calling you would we still have a relationship? Anything that isn’t reciprocal needs to vanish.

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Susiebdds 2y ago

This! Reciprocity is the baseline. I don’t do well with demands on my time that seem mandatory for the relationship and certainly not abuse of my generosity, dental skills or prescription writing ability 😡

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HODL 2y ago

Seriously I feel you! Btw can I get some codeine? Lol 😂 jk