I'm suggesting we take the best of both. I like browsing relays but only a select few, the rest are full of spam.

But there is no reason the outbox model needs to show a user a single feed. instead the user can have multiple feeds grouped around the relays their friends publish to. I think it would also make it easier to find fringe relays that nostr:npub180cvv07tjdrrgpa0j7j7tmnyl2yr6yr7l8j4s3evf6u64th6gkwsyjh6w6 or other crazy people publish to