one doesn't have to stop thinking about sex to recognize people as human and not objects...
Discussion
Many women enjoy being treated as an object from specific men
and some men enjoy being treated as an object from specific women.
what's the point?
we shouldn't go around treating humans as objects by default.
Men don't. Men enjoy the opposite to be in control.
My point is you nothing about human nature and kind of childish following dogmas that don't work in reality