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And this goes again to the 'submission' and 'dominant' thing that the Red Pill crew loves. I think they see women being 'bottoms' as them being submissive during sex.

But that doesn't line up with me. And when someone tells me that I ask them "are you submitting to the masseuse when you get a massage?"

You could see that situation as the 'bottom' submitting, or you could see it as the 'top' servicing the 'bottom'.

(I prefer to imagine sex as simply play time. No need for hierarchies in the bedroom.)
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PAKES 5mo ago 💬 1

100%. I think sex becomes good when you can switch your roles. Submission can be nice as can be dominating, just being in one category all the time is boring

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HannahMR 5mo ago

I think it's unhealthy to think that someone has to be above or below. but I do agree that sub and dom can, depending on how it's done, be healthy and fun games.