Do you have any paid relays? Your content would not load for me until I followed you.
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I have not gotten around to figuring out all this where and how to pay
You need a paid (meaning: pay-to-write) relay for others to easily see you. The small payment acts as a spam filter.
Most users (myself included) ignore content on free relays unless we explicitly follow the person first.
Relays are listed on: https://relay.exchange
If you want a recommendation, nostr.wine is good because it comes with two relays, the second being an aggregator and filter of popular free relays to kill the spam. The nostr.land relays are also very popular.
You'll need some sats in a Lightning wallet to pay.
You can add as many paid relays as you like without paying (pay to write; free to read). So pay for 1 or 2, but add 8 to 10, and remove all of the free relays from your client.
That will get you into the “real” nostr. A bit of friction to set up, but very worth it once inside. Huge signal with very little noise. I think you will see a lot of engagement, probably more than on Twitter.
Is there a quick way to explain how to pay like where do I get the invoice?
Never mind just had to click through in the right browser. Some brothers don’t bring up the wss.
Visit e.g. https://nostr.wine (or any of the others on https://relay.exchange ), put your npub in, hit pay, pay it as usual, then add the relay from your client.
Yeah that easy
awesome thanks