Question for the Married People or Long Term Relationship Folks,

First, really look at your spouse/partner/lover and then remember your first real love, first real crush as a child/teenager/young adult. Do they have similar features or characteristics?

I'm exploring this concept where the universe brings you through life to meet "the one" by introducing you to people that are...let's say...reminders, or more like clues. So instead of your first love being that person who was the one that was supposed to be your true love, it was a person introduced to you as a puzzle piece or character builder so you could meet the person that is more complete and is actually more suited for you. By following this idea of soulmates, its not about what you lost or could have had but flipping the script as the people in the beginning were helping you navigate to your destiny.

And if you are with someone who is your first love, do you feel a sense of wholeness, do you feel you complete? As if you bypassed all the clues and found your one.